Breaking up is difficult but an unfortunate part of life. However, even though you’ve broken up with your girlfriend, that doesn’t mean you’ve lost her forever. Yes, you can definitely get your ex girlfriend back and in this article we will be looking at a few tips and guidelines to help you do just that.
The first thing you need to do is get a hold of yourself! Sure, you will probably want to cry yourself to sleep and beg her to get back together with you. However, this will only push her away, so don’t do it! It is best that you recover on your own for as long as you need and this is the best time to focus on your friends and other relationships in your life. Once you have recovered emotionally from the breakup and loss, you can get to work on getting your woman back.
The first thing you need to do is stop all contact with your ex-girlfriend. You should stop talking, messaging or even seeing her for at least one month. This will allow her to miss you and crave contact with you. Once the month is up, you should then message or call her. This first message or conversation should be extremely lighthearted and fun. You definitely don’t want to bring any old issues, fights or arguments that would make her remember why the two of your broke up. Once you keep the conversation light and exciting, this will rekindle her interest in you.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should immediately start calling or messaging her every day! Distance does make the heart go fonder and while you should message and call her every so often, you should always strive to get her to call or message you first. You do this by being the cool and interesting guy that she fell in love with in the first place! Once she is calling you and messaging you first, you can then move on to meeting with her in person.
When you meet with her in person, a little bit of preparation goes a long way. This means that you should definitely try to look your best, but don’t go overboard. While you want to look attractive and well groomed, you definitely don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard. Therefore, leave the suit at home and put on a well-fitting pair of jeans and a shirt that accentuates your features and makes you look your best. Once you meet her, you should definitely try your best to be outgoing, confident and interesting while also flirting with her. This will help to rekindle her romantic interest in you and in time, she might even approach you to get back into a romantic relationship. Using this method, you will basically make your ex-girlfriend fall back in love with you!
So, there you have it, my best tips on how to get your ex-girlfriend back after a breakup. This method is almost fool proof and will work in most situations.
Good luck in getting your ex girlfriend back!